Differentially private stochastic gradient descent (DP-SGD) is the workhorse algorithm for recent advances in private deep learning. It provides a single privacy guarantee to all datapoints in the dataset. We propose an efficient algorithm to compute per-instance privacy guarantees for individual examples when running DP-SGD. We use our algorithm to investigate per-instance privacy losses across a number of datasets. We find that most examples enjoy stronger privacy guarantees than the worst-case bounds. We further discover that the loss and the privacy loss on an example are well-correlated. This implies groups that are underserved in terms of model utility are simultaneously underserved in terms of privacy loss. For example, on CIFAR-10, the average $\epsilon$ of the class with the highest loss (Cat) is 32% higher than that of the class with the lowest loss (Ship). We also run membership inference attacks to show this reflects disparate empirical privacy risks.