Off-policy actor-critic algorithms have shown promise in deep reinforcement learning for continuous control tasks. Their success largely stems from leveraging pessimistic state-action value function updates, which effectively address function approximation errors and improve performance. However, such pessimism can lead to under-exploration, constraining the agent's ability to explore/refine its policies. Conversely, optimism can counteract under-exploration, but it also carries the risk of excessive risk-taking and poor convergence if not properly balanced. Based on these insights, we introduce Utility Soft Actor-Critic (USAC), a novel framework within the actor-critic paradigm that enables independent control over the degree of pessimism/optimism for both the actor and the critic via interpretable parameters. USAC adapts its exploration strategy based on the uncertainty of critics through a utility function that allows us to balance between pessimism and optimism separately. By going beyond binary choices of optimism and pessimism, USAC represents a significant step towards achieving balance within off-policy actor-critic algorithms. Our experiments across various continuous control problems show that the degree of pessimism or optimism depends on the nature of the task. Furthermore, we demonstrate that USAC can outperform state-of-the-art algorithms for appropriately configured pessimism/optimism parameters.