Federated Learning (FL) endeavors to harness decentralized data while preserving privacy, facing challenges of performance, scalability, and collaboration. Asynchronous Federated Learning (AFL) methods have emerged as promising alternatives to their synchronous counterparts bounded by the slowest agent, yet they add additional challenges in convergence guarantees, fairness with respect to compute heterogeneity, and incorporation of staleness in aggregated updates. Specifically, AFL biases model training heavily towards agents who can produce updates faster, leaving slower agents behind, who often also have differently distributed data which is not learned by the global model. Naively upweighting introduces incentive issues, where true fast updating agents may falsely report updates at a slower speed to increase their contribution to model training. We introduce FedStaleWeight, an algorithm addressing fairness in aggregating asynchronous client updates by employing average staleness to compute fair re-weightings. FedStaleWeight reframes asynchronous federated learning aggregation as a mechanism design problem, devising a weighting strategy that incentivizes truthful compute speed reporting without favoring faster update-producing agents by upweighting agent updates based on staleness. Leveraging only observed agent update staleness, FedStaleWeight results in more equitable aggregation on a per-agent basis. We both provide theoretical convergence guarantees in the smooth, non-convex setting and empirically compare FedStaleWeight against the commonly used asynchronous FedBuff with gradient averaging, demonstrating how it achieves stronger fairness, expediting convergence to a higher global model accuracy. Finally, we provide an open-source test bench to facilitate exploration of buffered AFL aggregation strategies, fostering further research in asynchronous federated learning paradigms.