We study visually grounded VideoQA in response to the emerging trends of utilizing pretraining techniques for video-language understanding. Specifically, by forcing vision-language models (VLMs) to answer questions and simultaneously provide visual evidence, we seek to ascertain the extent to which the predictions of such techniques are genuinely anchored in relevant video content, versus spurious correlations from language or irrelevant visual context. Towards this, we construct NExT-GQA -- an extension of NExT-QA with 10.5$K$ temporal grounding (or location) labels tied to the original QA pairs. With NExT-GQA, we scrutinize a variety of state-of-the-art VLMs. Through post-hoc attention analysis, we find that these models are weak in substantiating the answers despite their strong QA performance. This exposes a severe limitation of these models in making reliable predictions. As a remedy, we further explore and suggest a video grounding mechanism via Gaussian mask optimization and cross-modal learning. Experiments with different backbones demonstrate that this grounding mechanism improves both video grounding and QA. Our dataset and code are released. With these efforts, we aim to push towards the reliability of deploying VLMs in VQA systems.