Modern realities and trends in learning require more and more generalization ability of models, which leads to an increase in both models and training sample size. It is already difficult to solve such tasks in a single device mode. This is the reason why distributed and federated learning approaches are becoming more popular every day. Distributed computing involves communication between devices, which requires solving two key problems: efficiency and privacy. One of the most well-known approaches to combat communication costs is to exploit the similarity of local data. Both Hessian similarity and homogeneous gradients have been studied in the literature, but separately. In this paper, we combine both of these assumptions in analyzing a new method that incorporates the ideas of using data similarity and clients sampling. Moreover, to address privacy concerns, we apply the technique of additional noise and analyze its impact on the convergence of the proposed method. The theory is confirmed by training on real datasets.